Is it bad luck to give knives as a gift?

By: Laurie L. Dove  | 
Knife with a gift bow
Gah! That knife doesn't have a penny taped to it. Is the recipient doomed?
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Sometimes it's difficult to find the perfect gift for a friend. You wrack your brain, trying to come up with a thoughtful gift that will be appreciated and defy the cookie-cutter mold. Better still? The gift will be affordable, too.

Enter the knife. A knife is a timeless and useful gift. A knife or a set of knives can be engraved, intricately tooled and selected to fit the receiver. There are knives for outdoor enthusiasts, culinary aficionados and survivalists for any number of occasions, ranging from birthdays to weddings and anniversaries. Before you give one, however, there's something you need to know: Gifting knives has long been considered bad luck.


According to one superstition, a knife presented as a gift will sever the friendship between the giver and the recipient. The only way around this unfortunate outcome is to tape a penny to the knife. The coin must be promptly removed and returned to the giver as a form of symbolic payment. This transaction prevents the relationship from being cut and, because the knife was "purchased," releases the giver from any injuries that might result from its use.

Knife-giving superstitions are prevalent the world over, and many beliefs surround sharp objects. It's especially bad luck to give a knife as a wedding gift because, according to folklore, it could cut the marriage ties. For similar reasons, a pocketknife should be handed to someone only if it's closed. Otherwise, it'll cause an argument. If there's been a death in the family, superstition insists that knives should be carefully handled. This way, family members can avoid stabbing the soul of the dead.

If all this superstition makes you hesitant to give a knife as a gift, consider this: Keeping a knife in a jar of water by the front and back doors of a home is believed to ward off evil spirits -- apparently, they're afraid of their reflections in the water and on the knife's surface. So maybe the gift of a knife isn't so bad after all.


Originally Published: Apr 2, 2015

Knife Superstition FAQs

Is it bad luck to give knives as a wedding gift?
According to folklore, the symbolic meaning of a knife is a broken relationship and, therefore, it is considered bad luck to give a knife as a wedding gift.
Is it bad luck to close a knife you didn't open?
Yes. According to folklore, doing so will inevitably lead to a broken life.
What is the meaning of dropping a knife?
Some people believe that if you drop a knife accidentally, you're about to have a male visitor. Similarly, dropping a fork means a female visitor and a spoon represents a child.
What does it mean when someone gives you a knife?
If you receive a knife as a gift, especially from someone that is closely related to you or is a good friend, it is considered extremely bad luck. Superstitiously, a knife signifies "cutting" the relationship.
What does seeing a knife in a dream mean?
Seeing a knife in a dream could mean there are things you need to cut out of your life. Or it could mean you need to put an end to a relationship. Or there is some kind of struggle or divison.

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  • The Kitchn. "Is It Bad Luck to Give a Knife as a Gift?" (Dec. 26, 2014)
  • Webster, Richard. "The Encyclopedia of Superstitions." Llewellyn Worldwide. 2012. (Dec. 26, 2014)